Monday, January 18, 2010


I just read a post by Mrs. R that made me sick.

Mrs. R was Scammed last week.
She was scammed by a girl that has done this to at least 3 other couples.

This girl, "T.A" was pretending to be pregnant.
She was saying she wanted to place her baby with the r house.

This girl is a liar.

I cannot even comprehend how someone in their right mind could do something so plain evil,
because that's definitely what it is.
HOW could you sleep at night?
This girl was toying with very very sensitive emotions.

One of these scammed couples said this:

"We are very soured on adoption now and would appreciate any positive experiences, or insight you could give us. I'm just shocked anyone would do this. I'm devastated!"
That breaks my heart.

Adoption is an amazing thing.
Why someone would do something so cruel so they could "feel important" or whatever it is that this girl said was her reason, I will never know.

But because of her,
others are hurt by it.
Others are feeling the pain she has left for them.

I highly recommed reading Mrs. R's story.
I think it will educate other adoptive couples on the 'signs' of scammers.

I PRAY this doesn't happen to you.

I can't find the right words to express how sickened I am by this girl.
She needs some serious help. 

Here is mrs. r's story:

Part 1
Part 2
Part 3

Mrs. R is working with these other couples to hopefully Press Charges.
Because yes, you can do that to scammers.
Especially Adoption Scammers.

Please keep T.A and these families affected by her in your prayers.
I'm sure they both need it.


Lechelle said...

So sad. I really hope TA gets help, preferably before she tries this again!

brittany michelle said...

it's terrifying how that can seem OK to someone like TA. I don't even want to know how she justifies that.

Mandy @ The Party of 3 said...

Such a sad story. When I was reading Mrs. R story my jaw was on the floor. Unreal. Thank God for awesome REAL birthmothers like you!

Susan said...

Just wanted to say how thankful I am to read your blog and grateful to you for sharing your story and perspective. We're hoping to adopt and have been contacted by 2 or 3 girls that I found later had just been contacting us for attention. We never understand why anyone would want to do such a horrible thing to any of us just looking to build a family! It's painful and hard to deal with because it makes you suspicious of even honest women looking for the right family. Thank you again - it's helped us to understand a birthmom's perspective firsthand! Your blog gives us so much hope! :) Susan